Miscarriage Melodies
Let Your Rhythm Carry Through The Drama
Dearest,
I wholeheartedly wish you wouldn’t have needed to land here.
But since you did, let me give it my all to pick you up. How can I help?
Expecting Miscarriage
First of all: Let me send you a virtual warm hug into your cold days. I feel you.
For me, the devasting news were not really followed by advice on how to prepare. I guess that is what brought you here as well.
Have you ever seen one of these movies where the gal heads over to the restaurant bathroom for a short breakdown? And then returns to the family dinner, wiping away the tears on her way back? Let me put it this way: It’s totally not like that.
When the actual act of pregnancy loss hit me, I was totally unprepared. From nowhere did I have a chance to get a clue on what to really expect.
That’s why I prepared this short guide for you to download for free, featuring the most important stuff I really would have wanted to know before.
Don’t Overlook Postpartum
When I googled for pregnancy loss post partum, I found a program promising the fast way on how to get back to normal.
To me, that idea, get back to normal fast, summarizes everything that is wrong with the way our society is viewing pregnancy loss. Rather, I want to see it as an experience that is part of my story now. There is now way back. The question is how to ease into the way forward.
This is what I am suggesting here and why I prepared this free guide for you.
Pregnant Again
Have you been told to not tell anybody about your pregnancy in the first three months, because, well, it could not turn out well?
But then, when it doesn’t turn out well, well, you’re quite alone. So who actually wants us to stay silent? Who wants us to suffer alone?
I’ve prepared this short guide on how to protect your energy and your sanity. On how to build your support system and try to make peace with whatever the outcome of your journey will be.
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My Story
Hi, this is Susanne. When I held the positive pregnancy test in my hand in 2021 this came as a surprise to me. I was 42, our kids were grown up or almost grown up already. We were Covid-broke. We took one week to decide whether we want to embark on that journey.
Little did I know that when the first trimester symptoms seized, it was not the end of month three, but the end of my pregnancy. It hit me unprepared.
With the next positive test one year later, I did not have to think through a decision again. The decision had already been made. But this time, I knew to read the signs. I lost this pregnancy as well, again towards the end of month three.
And even though I had gone through it before, I still did not have all the information I needed to take care for myself. Thus this site.
Statistically, every third pregnancy ends in a loss. Let’s not have any single one of us suffer in silence any longer.